Un-Do, Un-Try, Un-Make
In the midst of all the changes we have been going through including the energetic shifts and downloads especially since the past 4 months, I have noticed some of my clients entering temporary states of depression and feelings of defeat. It can seem as though you are not progressing or you are stuck because you may think you are not reaching that goal, accomplishing that task or turning into the person you thought you should be fast enough. Although things are energetically quickening for us on this planet there still has to be a period of healing, shedding and integration that we simply cannot forego in our physical experience of ourselves. This is just the way it is. Give yourself some time and space to explore the new possibilities. Say goodbye properly to the old you that you had known for so long. Just as it is hard to release a long term relationship, it is just as hard to let go of the old idea of who you thought you were, had to be or were expected to be. You are
... re-learning, re-membering and that will take time. Maybe you are still in need of letting go of who you thought you should be, where you should live or what job you should have by now. Our ideas of ourselves are in constant change right now. Sometimes we truly do not know who we can be or who we want to be. So what we can do is to simply let go of the limited expectations we have about ourselves and our lives. When you do that you enter the energy of allowing and release your attachment to the outcome. Everything you do from that moment on will flow more effortlessly and you will see many of the stressors in your life dissipate. Don’t beat yourself up too much though. Don’t get so busy trying to make a living that you forget to live. When we enter the world of self-help and healing there is a fine line between pushing for the outcome to happen and simply allowing life to unfold naturally. This is not paint by numbers and no one is alike in this process. So don’t compare your progress to anyone else. Although we are all connected our path is uniquely our own. Yet there is no right or wrong. Though we may walk different paths in life, eventually they all lead back home. Have compassion with yourself and your own unique process of unfolding. Allow your hidden desires, intentions and dreams to announce themselves to you naturally. And they will without you seeking them out feverishly. Simply notice, pay attention, go inward often and listen to your heart. The answers are all there, you just need to learn to quiet your life and calm your strive. Un-do, Un-try and Un-make and you may find all you have been looking for has been right there with you all along.