May Newsletter

All Events Are Neutral

Everything in our world, the seen and unseen, is energy. Everything within our bodies and in our environment is vibrating and in constant motion; absorbing, transforming and emitting energies. These energies carry certain frequencies depending on their nature. Just like we do, depending on who we believe and feel we are in regards to ourselves and the world around us. We are always in constant energy exchange with everything and everyone. That is just what energy does. It is neither bad or good, just the way it is. The natural way of you will. The sun shines not because it “wants” to but because that is what it does. The stars and planets “behave” the way they do because that is their nature according to their vibration or energy patterns. A bird flies not because it was told to do so or because it feels it should, but simply does what it does because it is what it is.

Most people would, and do consider the human race more advanced not only in their mental capacity but also regard them far superior in their spiritual nature as opposed to the animal kingdom or plant life on earth. What separates us from these energies (plants, animals and such) is the fact that we have a problem residing in a neutral energy, which is basically the nature of the universe. We allow our judgments to alter any energy we encounter into something that it is not. Plants and animals do not do this. As a result they truly embody the energy most refer to as divine or the God/Christ consciousness.

All events are neutral, until you decide how you want to meet that energy. When your judgement stems from a place of fear regarding any situation you encounter in your life, you enter a vibration of contraction rather than expansion. If someone approaches you with anger and starts an argument with you, you will most likely fall into judgment straight away. Firstly you have decided that they are angry and therefore have conjured up all that you associate with anger and confrontation. Secondly the resulting thoughts and feelings you have about this encounter are all judgments! And then ultimately these thoughts create judgements about your reality. We create realities all the time, every second of the day. When you wake up and look outside the window and see rain and you think to yourself: “Ugh that’s some bad weather!” You have just created another reality. Instead of looking outside the window thinking: “Mmmh it is raining. My plants can really use some moisture to grow.” 

This is not to say that you cannot have an opinion or make observations. You of course always have a choice. There is no judgement over your judgements from a higher source of any kind, because that would be the energy of contraction, limitations and fear. It is all up to you. You can live any reality you choose. You are a divine creator. If you do not like what you have created (which is a judgement by the way) you can always change your experience. If you want to enter into a divine union with who you truly are you have to learn to come from a place of love and expansion. An important part of this process is to start becoming more aware of your judgements and the patterns you keep repeating in your life. It is always easier to give advice and be zen when life is going your way, but the real test happens when you are faced with things that challenge your peace. We have no problem considering things as neutral if they don't immediately affect us. We dress in spiritual clothing, wear religious iconography and pray diligently, yet underneath it all we mask the fact that we may not be as at peace with ourselves and the world as we might want to believe. A famous buddhist quote really hits the nail on the head here: “If you think you are enlightened, spend a weekend with your family!”

This also does not mean you have to become cold hearted or blind to the suffering of the world. Because after all, part of awakening to who you truly are, a divine spark of love and light, means to recognize that you are an integral part of everything and everyone. I believe the reason why we have started to judge and become partial to things, people and events is the fact that we believe in death. Our believe in death gave birth to our illusion of time, because we think we are always running out of it. Yet I do not believe in death, not in the literal sense. How can I as a medium? I encounter loved ones on the “other side” all the time, wherever space wise that is. “Alive” and well. Energy never ceases to exist! That is not what energy does. We all know this from physics class from school. Energy is never wasted in the universe or simply disappears, it merely transforms it state of being. Our physical bodies are simply our “vehicles” or communication devices here in this physical reality we are currently having. It becomes a lot easier to judge once you realize this truth. Because when you do, you let go of the energy of fear an the illusions that keep you trapped and limited.

So you might find life getting a lot easier if you can enter into that neutral energy more often. Try and approach all events in your life with innocent eyes and regard them as opportunities rather than obstacles. I mean considering death is an illusion, we have all the time we can ever want!So many things become trivial in the light of such a realization. 
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I look at my parents and grandparents now and they seem so much more relaxed now than what they used to be. They always say to me the older they got the less of a shit they gave. And maybe it’s because they enter into that neutral place now more often than in the past. They do not get all hot and bothered about the little things anymore and as a result their lives are so much more simple, stress free and fun. Even at my age I find myself thinking every now and again…I wish I knew then what I know now. Things would have been so much easier and I would have been so much happier.

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